Sexual intimidation
I enjoy sex, and I enjoy it very much. While I consider myself
submissive for the most part, I am aggressive when it comes
to sex. By that I mean I don't have any taboo's really.
When I talk to people about sex I'm very open and honest,
I don't hold back on things I say about my beliefs or
my questions of others. I'm that way with partners
when I'm engaging in sex acts as well. I don't have
a problem telling a man or a woman what I want, how I want it
and to give it to me. I've recently had occassion to
engage in sex with a few younger, less experienced partners.
During and after sex they were very pensive and almost shy.
I couldn't help but feel like I over powered them, either
with my incredibly high sex drive or with my direction in
what I wanted. I was wondering if anyone else has experienced
this type of situation before. Where you've sort of
intimidated your sexual partner and made them apprehensive.
It was almost as if when I told them to do something, they
did it out of fear more than anything else. Like an abused
puppy who cringes when it hears a loud noise. I felt so bad
about it and I'd like to be able to curb it so I don't
put any other young friends through it again.
