Response to Iamhorney
You asked for some feedback, so here goes and this is only
my opinion of course.
First of all your handle is offensive. And your message
screams of only wanting sex sex sex.
Now, of course this site is considered more liberal than
traditional meeting sites, but, there is a limit. I mean
really, as a woman, with many many options for sex (just
the way the world works), why would I hook up with someone
who was so blatantly rude about it. I am sure most people
on this site are a little more loose about
casual sex, however...so many of you men do not appreciate
the need for a little of the dance.
Heck if I wanted to be treated like a peice of meat, I could
just go down to the local bar or corner for that matter, pick
up a man I was attracted to have sex, meet my objective and
at least get paid for it! Demonstrate and exercise some
degree of gentlemanly behaviour, even if it i a stretch
for you...you will get much farther on this or any other
site. I am shocked at some of the disgusting handles men
use...To point, the other nite I was on the chat for my geographical
area and some guy wiht the handle Clam-muncher
tried to chat with me. I was TOTALLY turned off and told him
so.
Gents, this site is not akin to Contact a woman, get
sex for free, no muss no fuss..
I am not looking for a relationship, but neither am I looking
to meet with some neanderthal that has no manners or social
graces.
And regarding why so many women do not respond, perhaps
it may be helpfull if I relay my own experience.
I joined this site a few months ago determined to treat men
as I would like to be treated, specifically responding
even if I was not itnerested to at least let the man know,
and to be polite and considerate about it. Well, that objective
has gone to hell-in-a-handbasket. Despite clear preferences
stated in my intro and my profile (preferences that are
pretty 101-basic) such as I am looking for
a non-attached, non smoking man over 40., it seems many
men can't read or are too dense to pay attention. I have
gotten so many e-mails from men who are very young, married/attached
and who smoke...Geesh, at first I politely pointed out
my preferences, then I started blasting them, now I just
hit the delete button. If you cant even exercise enough
common repsect to read and pay attention to my preferences
and RESPECT them, why would I want to have anything to do
with you...So, guys, as usual, a few of you spoil it for the
others.
There, perhaps that helps...